Category: Family Help

  • An Interview With Dr. Linda on Letting Go of Worry

    Christina Jonas Kennedy interviews Dr. Linda Mintle on her latest book, Letting Go of Worry. Here is an excerpt of that interview:

    Christina Jonas Kennedy: If people could only gain a few key ideas from reading your book, Letting Go of Worry, what ideas would you like them to be?
    Dr. Linda Mintle: I am like a lot of people. I thought worry was a part of my every day life and had to be managed. But worry is not something to be managed. It is a bad habit that needs to be stopped. We can be free of worry and do not need to keep worry as our life companion. It is also important to remember that letting go of worry is something we practice with our minds and work on daily. So rather than feel guilty when worry pops up, accept God’s grace, and intentionally cultivate a worry free life.  This is only possible because of our relationship with God. Without God, you should worry!

    Christina Jonas Kennedy: Was there a specific incidence that spurred you to write this book, or had it been an ongoing thought?

    Dr. Linda Mintle: I’ve wanted to write a book on this topic for years because it is personal for me. I’ve had experiences that I could use to justify worry—my mom had cancer twice, one of my brothers was hit on his motorcycle and almost killed, my other brother was killed from a terrorist bomb on an airplane and I struggled with infertility for seven years. These experiences create an awareness of feeling out control and are a set up for worry. Thus, worry became a natural default for my family. Yet, I knew God’s word and the instruction to be anxious about nothing.

    Christina Jonas Kennedy: Was the prime idea of Letting Go of Worry your first idea for your book, or did your thoughts transform during the duration of writing your book into something that you hadn’t foreseen at the beginning?

    Dr. Linda Mintle: That is an interesting question because I usually write a book thinking I know exactly what I want to say. But I was surprised by how definitive Jesus is about the subject of worry. There is no wiggle room in His words. In Luke 21:14 Jesus tells his disciples to make up their minds not to worry. He basically says don’t do it. Worry is evidence of doubt. I came to the conclusion that if I intentional allow worry in my life, I am sinning—a very difficult concept for me since worry comes easily. I know God’s grace is there to help and that He wouldn’t tell us to do something that is impossible to do. But I was personally challenged to make changes in my own life.

    For the rest of this interview, click here.

     

  • Psych Central Reviews I Love My Mother But..

    Read the full review of I Love My Mother But from Psych Central.

    “No doubt this book will empower readers. Even in the most impossible of situations, daughters can still achieve a resolution. While it requires a lot of effort and hard work to get to that point, I Love My Mother, But gives readers practical strategies to take action and make peace with their moms.”

  • Ten Ways to Honor Mom this Mother’s Day

    Mother’s Day can be a wonderful time of celebration or a difficult time of grieving losses and hurts. No matter the state of your relationship, you can always find a way to follow that biblical command to honor your mom. Here are 10 ways to honor mom:

    1. Tell her one thing she did right.
    2. Recall happy times and loving memories.
    3. Resolve past hurts and start fresh. You begin the process. Simply say, “we may be having a difficult time but I would like the relationship to improve. Can we try again?” Or, “Mom, let’s work through our differences and talk about things.”
    4. Write a short story about you and mom and share it with her.
    5. Send a card. Express thanks.
    6. Put together pictures of you and your mom in a scrapbook. Or give her a photo that brings to memory a happy moment.
    7. Buy her dinner or special treats.
    8. Tell her you love her and appreciate all the sacrifices she has made through the years. No moms are perfect but we can appreciate that they do their best.
    9. Forgive. Extend grace. Forgiveness is something you do individually. It is a choice and a gift you give to someone. It moves you from stuck to unstuck in all your relationships when you choose to forgive.
    10. 10.  In the most difficult relationships, honor her for giving you life. Buy a blank card and simply write, “Thanks for choosing life and bringing me into this world. “

     

     

     

  • Your Time With Kim Iverson–Listen to the Interview

    Dr. Linda takes a few minutes to talk with Kim Iverson about mother-daughter relationships based on her new book I Love My Mother But…

    Dr. Linda Mintle on Your Time with KIm Iverson

  • I Love My Mother But…Dr. Linda Discusses Her Newest Book

    Join me as I chat about my new book, I Love My Mother But…
    Available March 1, 2011 (Harvest House)